Tim, you're just a new parent. I think we all feel like this, especially in the beginning. Take it a day at a time. Make sure you and your wife both have breaks away from the baby and each other...by that I mean an hour or so for a bubble bath or for some peace just to be. Your home will get some point. It doesn't have to be perfect. Your baby doesn't care. Don't feel obliged to answer everyone. You don't need to. If you're responding to comments on a post. Just put up one response thanking folks to their comments (if you feel you want to). Hire your virtual assistant. Don't try and do it all because no one can do it all.